Puppy, kitten doesn't make good gift on Christmas Day 12/14/2009 9:58 PM By GARY WILLOUGHBY Aiken SPCA Executive Director
The calls have already begun coming in. "I want to get my kids a puppy for Christmas. Can you hold it until Christmas Eve?"
We certainly understand that kids love puppies and kittens, and many would be very happy to see one as a member of the family on Christmas morning.
However, if you take a step back and think about it, there probably isn't a worse day to introduce a new member of the family into your house.
Animals need routine and take time to adjust to life away from a shelter and into your new home. On Christmas, you're much more likely to have a house full of people, a big Christmas tree with lights and decorations, unwrapped toys and wrapping paper all around the house. Not exactly the best environment for a young puppy trying to find his way in a new home.
We also have to look back when we were kids. The excitement of opening our presents was one of the most memorable parts of the day. However, we all remember discarding one toy, when we opened a new, more exciting toy. The puppy may end up being the one discarded when the new video game system or new bike grabs little Johnny's attention.
Holidays are typically stressful times in the home, too. There is nothing like reliving an old family argument that happened 20 years ago with people you only see a couple times of year to make you grab for some more of the spiked eggnog and start looking at your watch hoping it is time to go. Now, add in a little puppy or kitten that knocks over the tree, or pees on the rug, or chews on mom's new fuzzy slippers that Santa brought her.
Next thing you know, the pet is back at the shelter as fast as someone heading back to the mall to exchange the outfit that Grandma bought them. The kids are heartbroken, the parents are frustrated; although the carpet cleaning guy enjoys the extra money around the holidays from the service calls.
Is there a solution? We think so. We don't enjoy seeing homeless animals in shelters around the holidays anymore than you do. But we also don't want to have a long return line at our front door on Monday, Dec. 28. That sight is tough to swallow.
If you are serious about adding a new pet to your home this holiday season, here is what we recommend.
First, decide what fits best in your home, dog or cat, young or full grown.
Next, go out and buy the supplies you will need. Let the kids open up a new leash and collar, a bowl and dog bed, a crate or little box. This will build the excitement of the new addition.
Print them out a little "gift certificate" good for a new puppy, kitten, dog or cat. Have them go with you and the entire family after Christmas to "redeem" their coupon for an animal that the whole family can agree on. You will have time to have a family discussion about who will walk the dog or clean the litter box and do other pet related chores that are important to discuss in advance.
Remind them that it is a big commitment and that the new pet will be with the family for many, many years and although they are lots of fun, there is work involved, too.
By the time Monday rolls around, children will have likely grown bored with many of their toys. Mom can put them in the closest. The family tree can be taken down and the homemade ornaments made of macaroni can be tucked away for next year.
You can then spend the rest of the weekend braving the crowds at the local movie theater or mall, all the while knowing your kids' great gift is waiting for them at their local shelter next week.
By the time you come out and adopt, everyone will know the plan. You're set up for a successful and lasting adoption.
You're teaching your kids about responsibility, planning and that instant gratification isn't the only way. Long after they are tired of the new GI Joe or video game, children will have a companion that will love them unconditionally. Consider coming out and adding your next member to your family. We'll see you after the holidays.
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Posted by: ML Seymour On: Wednesday, December 16, 2009 9:46 PM
Comment Title: Excellent advice
Very good advice! No one is suggesting to NOT get a puppy as an Xmas present, but to do so in a manner that will benefit the animal AND the children...and thats the purpose, eh?
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Posted by: On: Wednesday, December 16, 2009 2:55 PM
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I think it's a stupid article. There are cats and dogs that NOBODY wants and if a family wants to take one in and take good care of it then they should be able to. Who do you think you are to decide when the best time for a family to adopt a pet is? Maybe if people like you didn't try to make people feel guilty or jump through hoops to adopt an animal then maybe more people would take the steps to give a home to an animal in need. I tried to adopt a pet the right way last year and I was told I needed to fill out tons of paperwork (not just 1 form) and have an interview. an interview?? I wanted a puppy not a job. I mean, it's good to consider the animal's welfare, of course, but making it more difficult than it needs to be to give a home to a dog or cat that nobody else seems to want or care about doesn't make sense. So, I just found someone else whose dogs had puppies and got one that way when it was old enough. I hate arrogant people who think they can tell other people what they should or should not give their children for christmas. I gave my friend a pet for christmas and she loves him and takes great care of him--with children in the house and everything. If I hadn't given her that pet then he would probably be in a cage somewhere wishing for a home.
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Posted by: On: Tuesday, December 15, 2009 12:53 PM
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Great article with great points! I hope that everyone listens to this great advice.
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